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  Watch Out For Online Dating Scams
Tuesday, 7th July, 2009

Online dating becomes more popular each day, with millions of singles logging on each day and spending billions of dollars every year! Now, con artists have taken notice and want to cash in, too. Everyday, online dating scammers make $3000 off of single women and men that they’ve tricked into sending them money.  For every success story you hear about someone finding love online, there are at least a few who have some horror stories to tell. You can avoid being one of these victims, if you just keep your eyes peeled for some tell-tale signs.

The most obvioust thing to watch out for is any mention of money. No normal person would ask someone they’ve never met for money. They will use many excuses. A sick parent or an eviction notice will suffice as a plausible cause to send money, and since they’ve played on your heartstrings, they feel that they can get the money out of you by appealing to your sympathy. Another tactic they use is asking for money for airfare to come see you, with no actual intentions of making the trip. But, don’t fall for it. As soon as the issue of money is raised, be on guard.

Pay close attention to their user photo. Many scammers use photos of models or very attractive individuals that they’ve pasted from other websites or magazines. Alternately, they’ll steal a photo from another person in order to seem authentic. If the photo seems too good to be true, it probably is. Listen to your gut, if something doesn’t seem right.

Also, scammers can be characterized by their enthusiastic curiosity. While they refuse to offer up any details about themselves, they will continually ask your questions about you and your life. This may create an alluring mysteriousness in some cases, but be on the lookout if your match is unwilling to share any of their own life stories.

Finally, look out for inconsistencies in their communication patterns. When you are emailing back and forth, you may notice a change in their writing style, font detail and even language. It is very possible that the person you’re speaking with may be more than one person.


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Internet Dating News
  Outsource Your Online Dating
Thursday, 2nd July, 2009

Done For You Dating has made your online search for love even easier! The new online dating company has created a new service that allows users to enlist in the help of a professional who does your online dating for you.

Their service combines the principles of the online dating websites that you know and love with your own personal matchmaker. When you sign up for Done For You Dating, your representative will search the best internet dating sites and use the criteria you’ve given them to find you the best matches. They will be in constant contact with you by phone and email, always keeping you updated.

As an added bonus, you only pay for matches that you approve. If your representative finds you 25 matches and you only like 1 of them, you only pay for that single match. Done For You Dating bills on a match-by-match basis, so you won’t find yourself paying unnecessary monthly fees.

As an introductory promotion, Done For You Dating is offering their Personal Branding Campaign service for free for the month of July. During this process, your representative will interview you to get an idea of your likes, dislikes and interests. They will then write two or three dating profiles on your behalf and test which one works the best. They will also retouch your photos if they feel like it would help! Done For You Dating really does it all!


 
 
Tags: online dating news,new online dating,service,online dating,websites,online dating advice
Posted In:  Online Dating News,Internet Dating News
  Plenty of Fish Owner Searches Opens Paid Dating Site
Tuesday, 23rd June, 2009

Earlier this year, Markus Frind – owner of the free online dating site PlentyofFish,com -- announced that he was searching for a site on which to build a new dating network. He has recently set his eyes on OnlineDating.org, and talks have begun between Frind and the site’s owner. His new site will come as big change to existing Plenty of Fish users; it will require users to pay.

When Frind created Plenty of Fish in 2003, he was tired of seeing faceless dating corporations prey on individuals who were simply looking for love. His mission was to establish a free online dating site that put the customer before the company. In just over 5 years, Plenty of Fish has already earned itself a reputation as one of the most popular dating sites on the web, with a Top Ten ranking in Canada, the US and the UK. All this time, Frind has decided to keep his site free, vowing to make a difference for others rather than a profit for himself.

However, Frind has recently discovered that he’s losing out on huge profits and has decided to cash in. Recently, he mentioned that since Plenty of Fish linked users to competitor sites, he was giving up millions of dollars in possible revenue. He decided that the only option was to obtain a paid dating site or make his own. The result of his decision may now be Frind’s merger with or buyout of OnlineDating.org.


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Free Online Dating,Free Internet Dating,Relationship Guides,Online Relationships,Online Dating,Internet Dating,Online Dating Profiles
  How to Show You Care in Online Dating
Thursday, 16th April, 2009

There are several ways to show your online love interest that they are the one you are keeping in touch with more so than any other that may be lurking on the web.

Thanks to technology and the rapid advancement of online dating websites many online dating websites now offer an “e-card” option that allows members to send e-cards to one another expressing their feelings.

Whether the card is sent just to say “hello” or perhaps some sort of other flirting message, it is a nice way of adding something special to a fairly computerized relationship.

Once you have made a connection there are several options to let a person know that you are interested in them and what better way than sending your feelings in a romantic card that lets the admired know that they are just that. Most of the sites that are offering the e-card service are in fact sites that charge for a membership.

However as a privilege to the paying members the e-card service is a complimentary addition to everything else that is included in the membership. If you are one of the people that do belong to a paying network for online dating then it is a good idea to make sure that you are actually getting the services that you deserve for you money.

Make sure that the company you are with can offer you exactly what you are looking for in a internet dating site because there are surely many of other sited that you can visit and belong to if you desire.


 
 
Tags: online dating news,online e-cards,online dating
Posted In:  Internet Dating,Internet Dating News,Online Dating,Online Dating News
  Searching for the Best Online Dating Website
Tuesday, 23rd June, 2009

There are several ways to find exactly what you are looking for on the web. When it comes to online dating sometimes people don’t know exactly what they are looking for but what many don’t realise is that finding the best online dating site for them may actually help them in finding the best match. Here are a few tips on finding the online dating website that will best work to suit your needs:

Search for exactly what you are looking for: Before signing up for a dating website you should research the type of site that you want. Visit online search engines and type the terms that you are looking for. For example, if you are looking for a specific religion perhaps type “catholic online dating”. If you are looking for same sex online dating type “gay/lesbian online dating”. This way the results will be geared to your needs and wants.

Find out about costs and fees: If you are okay with paying for a dating site, research sites that charge a rate, remember to make sure you know what type of agreement you are looking into, whether it be long or short term and what the cancellation procedure is. If you are looking for a free site, search for that exactly and make sure there are no hidden fees or costs associated with it.

Once you have found the site that is right for you all that is left is to find your perfect match. Remember to look at profiles closely and read about people rather than just browsing through the photos. Online dating can be a very fun and enjoyable process! So don’t wait, get started today!


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Online Dating
  Free Access to CatholicSingles.com
Thursday, 9th July, 2009

Religious and spiritual beliefs can be a huge part of someone’s lifestyle and personality. A person’s religion and devoutness can greatly affecting their home life, their professional life and especially their love life. However, many online dating services neglect to take into account their clients’ religious beliefs. For those of you singles who use religion as a determining factor in your romantic decisions or who are looking for a mate who are of a certain faith, religious-based dating sites are therefore a great choice. That’s why CatholicSingles.com is offering singles the chance to check out their website this weekend for free!

From Friday, July 10 to Sunday, July 12, the popular dating website is hosting a Free Access Weekend, for any religious singles who are looking for love. The full access membership gives users access to contact anyone of the website, view full profiles, upload photos and use their chat rooms. The website offers several applications to members, to give them the chance to meet and talk to other singles who share their religious views.

CatholicSingles.com is the first website that to cater specifically to Catholics. It offers a variety of safe methods to seek and find your ideal match. It has been the starting point for many long-term relationships and marriages, a fact that the operators of the site are very proud of. You can even read success stories on their site, just to see how effective their dating service is.

Even if you’re not Catholic, there are many dating sites out there that cater to specific religions, so check them out!


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Internet Dating News
  Skyecandy Releases Demo for Video Speed Dating on Skype
Tuesday, 30th June, 2009

SkyeCandy has just released the first video speed dating program for Skype. In an innovative new format, SkyeCandy gives users the chance to be paired up with prospects from all around the world for short video-conferences which are scheduled on a continual basis. SkyeCandy gives users the opportunity to have face-to-face interaction without have to provide any personal information, allow for a safe and secure speed dating experience. Each user also has a friendliness rating, so users can weed out undesirable prospects.

Their High Definition demo is now available in for download on their Youtube Channel (team skyecandy) and the SkyeCandy official website. The demo is serves as an introduction to SkyeCandy, instructing users on the basics of their innovative new program. They walk you through how to download, register and get started on SkyeCandy and while showcasing some of their exciting new features. These include an interactive map that provides live information about users around the world, the ability to rate how friendly your date is and follow-up communication with successful dates over Skype.

Even after the trial period is over, SkyeCandy will remain free to all users, offering all Skype members its basic features. There are also paid features, including the option to send SMS messages directly to the mobile phone of your successful dates, and they are also planning to implement VIP features and Matchmaking Services in the near future.


 
 
Tags: online dating news,online speed dating,online video dating,online video speed,dating,online dating
Posted In:  Online Dating News,Free Internet Dating,Free Online Dating,Dating Websites
  The Right to See a Photo
Thursday, 18th June, 2009

There are a few things that go hand in hand when it comes to internet dating. The internet dating websites that currently exist have taught us that we must have certain expectations for what we are required to know about the person that we will potentially meet up with and now they have become the standard.

One of the most important variables to a successful meeting happens to be a photo. Not to say that the world has become completely superficial but looks seem to be at least somewhat important, especially in the beginning stages of getting to know someone.

One person that we were speaking to the other day made a very good point. He said “ would you approach someone at a bar or a pub or any public place if you didn’t find them in the least bit physically attractive?” No probably not, so the same goes to setting up a meeting with a complete stranger over the web. I

f you have had conversation online via email and perhaps even over the phone with the person then the only fair thing to do before meeting them seems to be sending over a photo. If you are planning to meet them anyway then what’s the harm in giving them a little sneak peak into who they are looking for in person?

So the truth of the matter is, people that are dating online have come to believe that they deserve to see a photo before meeting someone, so next time you are asked for one, no need to read between the lines, simply know that this has become the industry standard.


 
 
Tags: internet dating,online dating news,profiles,relationships,relationship guide,internet dating profiles,online dating
Posted In:  Online Dating News,Online Dating
  Things NOT to say on a First Date!
Tuesday, 9th June, 2009

So you have made it past all the online conversations, the telephone calls and know you are turning your online dating experience into reality. To start things of on the right foot there are a few things that you should refrain from saying on a first date:

Discussing awful first date experiences: No one really wants to hear about your other encounters when they hardly know you at all, so save the stories for a few dates later when you have gotten to know each other a bit better.

Don’t discuss your bad habits: Yes honesty is the best policy but there’s no reason that you have to pick your teeth after a steak dinner. There’s also no reason that your date needs to know the details of how you bite your nails, so if you could contain the smaller things for a little while it may be a good idea.

Don’t talk about your previous significant other: The reason you are on this date is to get to know the person on the other side of table. It is not to talk about your ex, your previous plans with your ex or the things that you loved/hated about your ex. Use the date to learn more about the one you are with now and you will be much better off.

All in all, a good rule of thumb to follow would be to evaluate if you would be interested in hearing this information, if the answer is no than chances are the other person doesn’t want to hear it either.


 
 
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Posted In:  Dating,Internet Dating,Internet Dating News,Online Dating,Online Dating News,Relationships
  Great Ways to End a Date
Tuesday, 2nd June, 2009

Good date, bad date, either way it has to end at some point. But how you would like it to end and how you go about taking the next steps (or not) depends on what you say and do at the end of the first date.

If you’re on a horrible date or you just haven’t felt that connection it’s best to be polite, ride it out until your earliest chance to leave appears. Unless it’s the most disastrous date in history, don’t just jump up mid-conversation and give some lame excuse and leave. Either way you cut it, no one wants to feel dumped on the spot. If you really can’t bear the thought of continuing the date, wait for a suitable time to make your exit, say, when dinner is over.
 
Again, be polite, tell the other person you’ve had a good time but unfortunately you haven’t felt a connection. If you’re on a great date and you want to book another one, express to the other person what a great time you’re having and see if they echo that feeling. This will help you test out the waters to see if asking for a second date is warranted. If you’ve found something in common like art galleries, bring up a new exhibit you’re dying to see and suggest you go together!

If you’re already at the end of the date and you feel you could land another date, be brave and just asked! It may be a bit scary but it’s the only way to ensure that second date. A casual “I had a great time, I’d love to go out again if you’re up for it” is simple and effective but also offers the other person a chance to voice their feelings. Above all, just be honest – remember there is a difference between honestly and bluntness. You may need to sugar coat it if you’ve just been on the worst date ever, but there is no point in pretending or lying about your time together. Honesty is key, and trust me, your date will appreciate it!


 
 
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Posted In:  Dating,Dating News,Relationship News,Relationships
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