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  Things to remember while creating an Online Dating Profile
Tuesday, 29th December, 2009

Things to remember while creating an Online Dating Profile


One’s chance of finding a potential date in an online dating portal is linked directly to the personal profile he/she had uploaded in the website. Yes, to an extent, this is like the resume that we all upload in job websites, to woo potential employers. The bottom line is the better you project yourself in your profile, the more invites you’re going to receive in your email. Read ahead to learn about the art of creating an online dating profile.

The profile, obviously, starts with a name. If you’re not using your own name, use something catchy as well as witty. Random letters and numbers is a big no!

Secondly, while describing your hobbies/passions, likes and dislikes, and other pertinent info about oneself, don’t be generic in your description. Instead go into the details a bit more, without being too personal, and cite examples on the way. Doing so will help the other person(s) to form a vague picture about your personality. Keep in mind people look for similar personalities to initiate contact, and that warrants that one need to express himself in the profile, if they were to receive further communication from potential dates.

As an extension to the above said point, be honest about the things you tend to state in your profile. It is a sad reality that today, many people, if not all, stretch their imaginations to all extends, in order to paint a very rosy picture about oneself in the dating profile. Don’t be like that! Instead, be yourself, and stick to your individuality always.

Another important thing to note while writing a dating profile is to know where to draw the line, as far as information you write into the profile text is concerned. Often, first timers tend to get carried away in the attempt to scout a potential date from the portal, and type in everything about oneself – including personal secrets – in their profiles. It should be understood however that this is online dating, and you have not met the other person yet. You can’t predict how the people will be or what their character is like. Who knows? Some of those seeing your profile may not be trustworthy or straightforward as yours. So, it is always advisable to careful, especially when it comes to adding personal info in one’s profile. The last thing one would want is trouble that comes invited!

Finally, sound positive, enthusiastic, and upbeat in your profile language. Others always want to be in the company of cool people, rather than someone with a huge chip on his/her shoulder.

Tail Piece: Always go for an online dating portal that protects user identity through intelligent features, backed by latest cutting edge security technology.



 
 
Tags: online dating tips,online dating
Posted In:  Online Dating,Online Dating Profiles
  Online Dating Rules
Tuesday, 29th December, 2009

Online Dating Rules

Online dating might be any easy way to find your date. But there are certain unwritten rules that everyone should follow, while scouting for a potential date in any online dating portal. Here are some of the important ones that would come handy to both the sexes.

The first step is to plan ahead. That is, you should decide for yourself what you want from a dating portal. Be clear in mind as to whether you are looking for a chat friend, someone to hangout in the weekends, or seeking one for a one-night stand etc. Else, you might end up hurting someone’s feelings or find yourself in yet another failed relationship again. Let be clear about your aims from the very beginning!

There are lots of dating portals in the cyberspace today. Hence, it would be advisable to seek the opinion of your friends and peers, who might have already used/using such dating portals, rather than you yourself picking one in random.

Take your own time. You might need to chat, email, or even talk over phone before both parties will feel comfortable enough to meet each other. In other words, don’t rush with your date, or push him/her to meet you when both of you have hardly known each other.

Be honest! Tell the other person who you are, what you are doing, your passions/interests etc, alongside answering his/her queries on you. Be yourself rather than pretending to be someone else. People love individuality, but not boasting or pretension.

While you try to be honest, you can’t always expect that the other person will also respond in kind. If you hear something from your prospective date that is too good to true, be watchful while you take the conversation any further. Take your time to know more about the other person, and verify the authenticity of his/her identity, when he/she reveals, in some practical means. For example, if he/she claims that he/she is working in a community college, check the local phone directory or any other public record for his/her name/address. Let not leave any stone unturned, if the game is about checking the identity of the other person, whom you have not met yet.

Also, be polite while chatting, and make yourself available over the web daily. You might need frequent communication in the early days at least.

Finally, before going to meet the person, assuming you’ve reached that stage, ensure that you meet up in a public place, where there are lots of people around, and keep yourself in an environment where you are comfortable in. After all, you are meeting someone for the first time, and the other person is more or less still a stranger to you. Safety is the priority here!



 
 
Tags: dating advice, dating tips, Online Dating
Posted In:  Dating Rules
  Online Dating Tips
Tuesday, 29th December, 2009

Online Dating Tips

Online dating opportunities are used by people to make various relationships such as friendship, love or romance or more. Online dating services help you to meet new people and make connections in an easy way. One of the most significant benefit of online dating is it helps you to contact to several prospects simultaneously.

The following are some tips to improve your online dating experience and to bring about good results.

  • Be Confident: It is necessary to be confident when you present yourself to meet someone online. Be positive minded and friendly while communicating with someone on dating.

  • Build a Good Profile: Create a lively, fun and positive profile. If you are looking for a specific type of person, clearly say it in your profile. Update your profile from time to time and this will make your profile reachable to more people.

  • Post Recent Photos: One of the most important elements that attract people towards your profile is a good photo. Always try to post recent, lively photos to your profile. Use good quality pictures to grab more attention.

  • Maintain Truthfulness: Being honest and truthful will definitely ensure a successful online dating experience. Always be honest in everything you say and post. Telling the truth will increase the chances of finding the right person who you are compatible with.

  • Prioritize profiles: As you are going through an unlimited number of profiles, it is not easy for you to choose a right one within a limited time. The best way is to organize and prioritize your contacts. You can prioritize contacts which you may find more interested and communicate with them at first.

  • Be Available & Responsive: Regular online communication is necessary in online dating world. Always set a specific time to spend on chat room. People like to receive quick responses and respond to email messages timely.



 
 
Tags: dating advice, dating tips, Online Dating
Posted In:  Dating Tips,Internet Dating Tips
  Tips for Creating a Good Dating Profile
Tuesday, 29th December, 2009

Tips for Creating a Good Dating Profile

If you want enter into the world of online dating, first thing you have to do is to create a good dating profile. As online dating is the best way to meet some special people, composing a good profile will definitely bring great results.

Most of the online dating sites allow you to create a free dating profile. Creating a good dating profile will increase your chances for finding the perfect match. The dating profile you create should reflect your personality and interests. A good profile will help you to connect with someone who has the similar interests.

When you start to create an Internet dating profile, there are a lot of things to consider.

Post Quality Profile Photo: As most people are attracted by the appearance, posting a good quality photo is important in a dating profile. A neat profile photo is best way to present yourself as an attractive date. Profiles without photos are commonly ignored by people. Do not post photos that are fuzzy, dark or taken at odd angles. Make sure your photo is clear and realistic.

Use a Catchy Profile Title: Sometimes people do not wish to read the whole profile; they just read the profile title. Adding a great title will definitely attract people towards your profile. Do not use previously used or over-used titles or clichés. Create a profile title that is witty and attractive.

Tell People About You: You can simply tell about yourself in pretty short words. Instead of just using generic words, describe your interests in phrases to make it more expressive. Always avoid writing long descriptions about yourself. Share people about your interests and activities as people get an idea about your personality. Describe about your hobbies in a little funny way. It is also important to use the proper spelling and grammar. You can also create a realistic description of your ideal date.

Creating a unique online dating profile will definitely connect with you the right person you are looking for. Take enough time to compose a good profile and be creative while describing yourself.



 
 
Tags: dating advice, dating tips, Online Dating
Posted In:  Dating,Online Dating Profiles
  Free Access to CatholicSingles.com
Thursday, 9th July, 2009

Religious and spiritual beliefs can be a huge part of someone’s lifestyle and personality. A person’s religion and devoutness can greatly affecting their home life, their professional life and especially their love life. However, many online dating services neglect to take into account their clients’ religious beliefs. For those of you singles who use religion as a determining factor in your romantic decisions or who are looking for a mate who are of a certain faith, religious-based dating sites are therefore a great choice. That’s why CatholicSingles.com is offering singles the chance to check out their website this weekend for free!

From Friday, July 10 to Sunday, July 12, the popular dating website is hosting a Free Access Weekend, for any religious singles who are looking for love. The full access membership gives users access to contact anyone of the website, view full profiles, upload photos and use their chat rooms. The website offers several applications to members, to give them the chance to meet and talk to other singles who share their religious views.

CatholicSingles.com is the first website that to cater specifically to Catholics. It offers a variety of safe methods to seek and find your ideal match. It has been the starting point for many long-term relationships and marriages, a fact that the operators of the site are very proud of. You can even read success stories on their site, just to see how effective their dating service is.

Even if you’re not Catholic, there are many dating sites out there that cater to specific religions, so check them out!


 
 
Tags: dating news,dating online, internet dating news,internet dating info,online dating news, internet dating,profiles
Posted In:  Online Dating News,Internet Dating News
  Watch Out For Online Dating Scams
Tuesday, 7th July, 2009

Online dating becomes more popular each day, with millions of singles logging on each day and spending billions of dollars every year! Now, con artists have taken notice and want to cash in, too. Everyday, online dating scammers make $3000 off of single women and men that they’ve tricked into sending them money.  For every success story you hear about someone finding love online, there are at least a few who have some horror stories to tell. You can avoid being one of these victims, if you just keep your eyes peeled for some tell-tale signs.

The most obvioust thing to watch out for is any mention of money. No normal person would ask someone they’ve never met for money. They will use many excuses. A sick parent or an eviction notice will suffice as a plausible cause to send money, and since they’ve played on your heartstrings, they feel that they can get the money out of you by appealing to your sympathy. Another tactic they use is asking for money for airfare to come see you, with no actual intentions of making the trip. But, don’t fall for it. As soon as the issue of money is raised, be on guard.

Pay close attention to their user photo. Many scammers use photos of models or very attractive individuals that they’ve pasted from other websites or magazines. Alternately, they’ll steal a photo from another person in order to seem authentic. If the photo seems too good to be true, it probably is. Listen to your gut, if something doesn’t seem right.

Also, scammers can be characterized by their enthusiastic curiosity. While they refuse to offer up any details about themselves, they will continually ask your questions about you and your life. This may create an alluring mysteriousness in some cases, but be on the lookout if your match is unwilling to share any of their own life stories.

Finally, look out for inconsistencies in their communication patterns. When you are emailing back and forth, you may notice a change in their writing style, font detail and even language. It is very possible that the person you’re speaking with may be more than one person.


 
 
Tags: online dating news,online dating scams,internet dating,scams,online dating,websites,online dating advice
Posted In:  Online Dating News,Internet Dating News
  Outsource Your Online Dating
Thursday, 2nd July, 2009

Done For You Dating has made your online search for love even easier! The new online dating company has created a new service that allows users to enlist in the help of a professional who does your online dating for you.

Their service combines the principles of the online dating websites that you know and love with your own personal matchmaker. When you sign up for Done For You Dating, your representative will search the best internet dating sites and use the criteria you’ve given them to find you the best matches. They will be in constant contact with you by phone and email, always keeping you updated.

As an added bonus, you only pay for matches that you approve. If your representative finds you 25 matches and you only like 1 of them, you only pay for that single match. Done For You Dating bills on a match-by-match basis, so you won’t find yourself paying unnecessary monthly fees.

As an introductory promotion, Done For You Dating is offering their Personal Branding Campaign service for free for the month of July. During this process, your representative will interview you to get an idea of your likes, dislikes and interests. They will then write two or three dating profiles on your behalf and test which one works the best. They will also retouch your photos if they feel like it would help! Done For You Dating really does it all!


 
 
Tags: online dating news,new online dating,service,online dating,websites,online dating advice
Posted In:  Online Dating News,Internet Dating News
  Skyecandy Releases Demo for Video Speed Dating on Skype
Tuesday, 30th June, 2009

SkyeCandy has just released the first video speed dating program for Skype. In an innovative new format, SkyeCandy gives users the chance to be paired up with prospects from all around the world for short video-conferences which are scheduled on a continual basis. SkyeCandy gives users the opportunity to have face-to-face interaction without have to provide any personal information, allow for a safe and secure speed dating experience. Each user also has a friendliness rating, so users can weed out undesirable prospects.

Their High Definition demo is now available in for download on their Youtube Channel (team skyecandy) and the SkyeCandy official website. The demo is serves as an introduction to SkyeCandy, instructing users on the basics of their innovative new program. They walk you through how to download, register and get started on SkyeCandy and while showcasing some of their exciting new features. These include an interactive map that provides live information about users around the world, the ability to rate how friendly your date is and follow-up communication with successful dates over Skype.

Even after the trial period is over, SkyeCandy will remain free to all users, offering all Skype members its basic features. There are also paid features, including the option to send SMS messages directly to the mobile phone of your successful dates, and they are also planning to implement VIP features and Matchmaking Services in the near future.


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Free Internet Dating,Free Online Dating,Dating Websites
  Searching for the Best Online Dating Website
Tuesday, 23rd June, 2009

There are several ways to find exactly what you are looking for on the web. When it comes to online dating sometimes people don’t know exactly what they are looking for but what many don’t realise is that finding the best online dating site for them may actually help them in finding the best match. Here are a few tips on finding the online dating website that will best work to suit your needs:

Search for exactly what you are looking for: Before signing up for a dating website you should research the type of site that you want. Visit online search engines and type the terms that you are looking for. For example, if you are looking for a specific religion perhaps type “catholic online dating”. If you are looking for same sex online dating type “gay/lesbian online dating”. This way the results will be geared to your needs and wants.

Find out about costs and fees: If you are okay with paying for a dating site, research sites that charge a rate, remember to make sure you know what type of agreement you are looking into, whether it be long or short term and what the cancellation procedure is. If you are looking for a free site, search for that exactly and make sure there are no hidden fees or costs associated with it.

Once you have found the site that is right for you all that is left is to find your perfect match. Remember to look at profiles closely and read about people rather than just browsing through the photos. Online dating can be a very fun and enjoyable process! So don’t wait, get started today!


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Online Dating
  Plenty of Fish Owner Searches Opens Paid Dating Site
Tuesday, 23rd June, 2009

Earlier this year, Markus Frind – owner of the free online dating site PlentyofFish,com -- announced that he was searching for a site on which to build a new dating network. He has recently set his eyes on OnlineDating.org, and talks have begun between Frind and the site’s owner. His new site will come as big change to existing Plenty of Fish users; it will require users to pay.

When Frind created Plenty of Fish in 2003, he was tired of seeing faceless dating corporations prey on individuals who were simply looking for love. His mission was to establish a free online dating site that put the customer before the company. In just over 5 years, Plenty of Fish has already earned itself a reputation as one of the most popular dating sites on the web, with a Top Ten ranking in Canada, the US and the UK. All this time, Frind has decided to keep his site free, vowing to make a difference for others rather than a profit for himself.

However, Frind has recently discovered that he’s losing out on huge profits and has decided to cash in. Recently, he mentioned that since Plenty of Fish linked users to competitor sites, he was giving up millions of dollars in possible revenue. He decided that the only option was to obtain a paid dating site or make his own. The result of his decision may now be Frind’s merger with or buyout of OnlineDating.org.


 
 
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Posted In:  Online Dating News,Free Online Dating,Free Internet Dating,Relationship Guides,Online Relationships,Online Dating,Internet Dating,Online Dating Profiles
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